The Most Important Thing My Son’s Teachers Ever Read Wasn’t His IEP
Read Time: 22 minutes Every August felt the same. The backpacks were packed. The school supplies had been bought. Families filled social media with first-day pictures, excited smiles, and fresh starts. While everyone else seemed excited about the beginning of another school year, I sat at my computer wondering something entirely different. Who will my […]
When Everyone Thinks You’re Doing Fine
If you had asked most people how I was doing in high school, they probably would have told you I was fine. Actually, they probably would have told you I was doing great. I got good grades, I was very involved in activities, I had great friends, I showed up to school every day, I […]
The Hidden Mental Load of ADHD
There’s a version of ADHD that people think they understand. “Oh look, a squirrel.”“Can’t sit still.”“Forgot their homework again.”“Probably just needs a planner.” Thank you, Brenda. Truly groundbreaking analysis. But the reality of ADHD is way less “quirky distraction” and way more “my brain has 37 browser tabs open, 12 are frozen, one is playing […]
Why One Task Feels Like 17 Steps
“It’s just one task.” It’s a phrase that gets used often, usually with good intentions. The goal is to simplify something that feels overwhelming. But for many neurodivergent individuals, that phrase doesn’t match the reality of how tasks are experienced. Because what looks like one task on the outside rarely feels that way on the […]
Knowing What to Do Doesn’t Mean You Can Do It
It’s one of the most frustrating experiences for both individuals and the people supporting them. You know what needs to be done. You understand the assignment, the expectation, or the next step. On paper, everything is clear. And yet, despite that understanding, nothing happens. This gap between knowing and doing is often misunderstood. It’s easy […]
How Clear Next Steps Reduce Overwhelm
Overwhelm doesn’t always come from doing too much. More often, it comes from not knowing where to begin. From the outside, a task might look simple. It might even feel manageable at first. But the moment someone sits down to start, that clarity disappears. What was once a single task turns into multiple decisions, questions, […]
Why Your Child Can’t Start Tasks (Even When They Want To)
From the outside, it can look confusing. Your child knows what needs to be done. They’ve heard the instructions, they understand the assignment, and they may even tell you they’re going to start. And then… nothing happens. They sit there, they avoid it, or they move on to something else entirely. It’s easy to assume […]
Neurodivergent Dad
Fatherhood, It’s a beautiful, messy, and often overwhelming experience for anyone. But for neurodivergent dads like myself add a cocktail of anxiety, ADHD, depression among others…
Our Journey with 504s and IEPs
Do you dread school as much as your child? Is it a fight to get them to go each day? Do you find yourself saying I know my child is capable…why do their grades not show it? Yeah, me too!
Why Is Time Management So Hard
I don’t know about you, but time management is a big issue in our home. I am almost never on time anymore – and I used to be the person who always showed up 5-10 minutes early.
English